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Boudoir Photography vs. Come As You Are Sessions

Come As You Are Sessions | Redefining Traditional “Boudoir” Sessions Into An Empowering Experience | Apollo Fields

“Come As You Are” vs. “Boudoir Sessions”

I’ve never felt right about calling my work “boudoir” but I have found myself using that term in the past because it is more relatable to people.  So I dug deep to find out not only what “boudoir” is being defined as, but then redefining what it is that I actually offer. 

A quick google search informed me that a boudoir session is “a photography session where you wear sexy outfits, lingerie, dresses, or even go scantily clad and get your photographs taken” (weddinglovely.com).  

Nope, nope, just no.  That is simply not what I do or what I offer.  

Everything I was reading online encouraged clients to do boudoir sessions because they are “a great gift for your fiance” or because they are “the perfect excuse to go shopping for lingerie” or because “you can get your hair and makeup done”.  

Again, that’s a big no for me.  

I believe that these sessions should be for you, as a way to honor your whole being exactly as you are in that moment.  No apologies, no excuses, no “I need to wait a few months to get in shape / lose the weight / get a summer tan / buy new clothes / whatever it is that is holding you back”. 

These sessions are about figure and form

They are about holding space for yourself. 

They are a journey.  They are powerful. They have the ability to be transformative and introspective and wild and expressive and beautiful and uncomfortable and awakening.  

They are about you coming exactly as you are.  

What is my role? 

My role is to support you in that experience and capture your entire being in photographs.  We’re going to heighten your awareness together, and then we are going to turn that into beautiful, epic, storytelling artwork.  

You will learn something about yourself in both the session as well as the images.  

For me personally, I am most inspired by individuals who come to me with an open mind and an open heart, who might be nervous for the session but instead of dulling those feelings with champagne and self deprecating jokes, are able to voice their emotions and begin the journey of trust in making these images all about you in the present moment.  

I will ask you to set your intentions and do some breath work.  We’re going to flow through your energy instead of freezing into awkward poses.  It is here where the nerves begin to lift, and this is the experience you will remember when you revisit these images over the years. 

If I’ve done my job correctly, these photographs will bring you back to the sensations you were feeling at that time in your life.  Maybe you were feeling excited about your upcoming wedding-- I want you to really feel it.  Maybe you were about to turn 40 and wanted to honor your body during that milestone.  Maybe you had just given birth and you were finding your way home again in your body.  Really feel it.  

Just got a new tattoo?  Recovering from surgery?  Ran your first marathon? Lost a family member?  Lost your job? Landed your dream job? Going through a divorce?  Celebrating your marriage? Celebrating one year sober? Coming out as gay?  Got your yoga teacher certification?  

Whatever it is, it is reason enough for one of these sessions.  In fact, just being alive right now is reason enough. There is some passion or struggle or fire or light in you that will make beautiful photos.  We’ll find it together-- just come as you are.  

XO,
Heather

FAQs:

What Should I Wear?

Whatever empowers you. Whatever makes you feel the most you.  As much or as little as you want. Want to wear lingerie? Do it because you feel beautiful in it, not because society has told you that this makes you sexy.  If you feel the most sexy in your power suit with your hair slicked back, do it. Wear a fucking snow suit for all I care, just do it with intention. 

I spent years drawing, painting, and photographing nude models for fine art classes and this is one of the most comfortable places for me to work as an artist.  I love nudity, but you don’t have to. For me, a naked body is sacred and beautiful, not inherently sexual. Whatever shape, size, color, wrinkle, stretch mark, hair, or feature you have, I’ve pretty much seen it all, and feel very at-ease around nakedness.  Again, it’s all up to you.  

What if these photos are a gift for my partner?

Great!  I say heck yes to this, but they should be a gift for you first.  I believe that your body belongs only to you, and whom you choose to share it with is sacred.  These sessions are no different. 

Do I need to get my hair and makeup done?

This is a very personal decision and I support both options.  Some people feel very empowered by getting their hair and makeup done for photos.  From a totally biased standpoint, I personally love when skin is done by a professional because they know how to really nail it for pictures, which makes a big difference even if you want a natural look.  These sessions don’t automatically imply that you have to have big curls, fake lashes, and red lipstick. We’re going to leave society’s definition of attractive at the door because ain’t nobody got time for that.  If you feel weird with your makeup done, then come barefaced. It’s ALL good.  

How much retouching is done?

Good light goes A LONG way and trust me, I love the good light.  This will do the majority of the heavy lifting in conjunction with the magic that I’m doing in the camera.  My post-production work consists of fine tuning your images-- straightening, adjusting, color correcting, etc…  I’m not a plastic surgeon though, and don’t ask me to “make you skinnier” in the pics. It ain’t happenin’, sister.  This goes against all of the empowerment work we’re doing together in the session, and I also believe that it does a huge disservice to society to nip-and-tuck photos.  And if nobody has told you this lately: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. You are. No bullshit.  

What about privacy of images?

You control it all.  Want them all private?  Cool, no problems. Love your pictures and want to share them with others?  Great. Want to choose the specific images that you’re comfortable sharing? Also great.  Changed your mind before / during / after the session? All good in the hood.  


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